tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post5689549222406478455..comments2023-08-25T10:16:45.426-05:00Comments on Informaproject......Because Ignorance Sucks: PenpalsDanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07664846592990249431noreply@blogger.comBlogger86125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-3502277292223171142011-06-15T14:42:26.819-05:002011-06-15T14:42:26.819-05:00It has been 8 years my husband hasn't seen his...It has been 8 years my husband hasn't seen his son. No contact and accsed of bieng verbally abusive but all documents and court papers even from ministry of children and family say the mother is the abuser but they claim i am. family court is a joke.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-33225692566220660792011-06-14T20:24:28.491-05:002011-06-14T20:24:28.491-05:00well, I considered setting myself alight with petr...well, I considered setting myself alight with petrol on parliament steps last sunday. knowing my luck ill probably survive. instead i am setting off on a 3000 km journey up the north island of new zealand and back, a protest hikoi (journey). gathering signatures for my petition to have family care boards vs. family court regime. pushing the financial burden on taxpayers, money would be better spent assisting the children and parent/s who are struggling. and as it is winter here, I may die from exposure - if anyone attempts to murder me, well i don't advise it as it will be an excuse to unleash my fury. suicide, ongoing psychological stress and abuse from government, families don't give a fuck? what a world we live in.warriormummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11439920608566287563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-10700735038438071042011-01-05T01:58:25.121-06:002011-01-05T01:58:25.121-06:00I saw this on a FB wall that someone posted. I had...I saw this on a FB wall that someone posted. I had to read it. And once I read it I could not stop. And I could not stop the tears as well.<br /><br />My name is Michelle. I also see how the courts ignore a fathers right. Exspecially when there is no abuse towards the children. A father is ignored where he should not be. A father plays an important role in a childs life as well as the mother. Courts do not see this. They believe every accusation without actual proof. I am sorry. I wish I could change it.<br /><br />It is wonderful you had such a great penpal. Who better else to have as a penpal as your own child?! Lots of prayers coming your way. For that is all I have to give.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-5343075322258443312010-10-27T04:41:38.258-05:002010-10-27T04:41:38.258-05:00first time i went to court got accused also of dom...first time i went to court got accused also of domestic violence and child abuse and my x claimed if i had visitation with my sons i would take them out of the country,because i did not surrender my foreign passport to the judge it took me 16 months to get supervised visitation.also my x filed a violation of restraining order with the police with the intent of having me arrested,lucky me i was 50 miles away from where she claimed i satlk her and i was in a party with lots of witness to testify to that,but you know it is funny this was investigated by the police and she did not get arrested for false testimony.thru out the divorce trial she did all to allienate me from my sons,in her anger rampage she even presented a videotape that she claimed was the proof that my son was out of control due to my abuse,well in the judge oppinion that proved her own child abuse,so after this laim attempt from her side she put my son in the UCLA mental institution for 3 weeks in order to get evidence that my son behavior was due to my abuse.thru same friends that worked for the insurance company paying for the bill at UCLA i got him out because get this "was nothing wrong with the child"questioned by the insurance company why were they paying for this? he got released that day.we went to court once again and because the judge was an idiot he gave me visitation with one son and no visitation with the other. <br />After this i made the most painfull decision of my life.<br />In order to protect my sons i had to leave the country so this mess would stop.i havent seen my sons in 8 years and not a day goes by i dont think and try to imagine how they look.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-77694066259491311082010-10-19T07:20:09.999-05:002010-10-19T07:20:09.999-05:00This is tragic. I feel for you. My husband was ...This is tragic. I feel for you. My husband was falsely accused and lost almost everything as well. And no one cares until it happens to them or someone they love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-6833675147375779542010-10-16T15:32:56.242-05:002010-10-16T15:32:56.242-05:00Anonymous said...
I had 2 daughters also that I r...Anonymous said... <br />I had 2 daughters also that I raise I haven't see them for 3 years, will never see them again, my ex has the best dirty lawyer of the silicone valley, each time I try something I found myself with new false allegations threat, this system terrified me. I piratically lost my mind to be separate from my 2 daughters. The strongest win, and yes this is warr.Danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07664846592990249431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-2653316308386253432010-09-13T08:47:22.514-05:002010-09-13T08:47:22.514-05:00Dan,
It's sad. You are embarrassing yourself....Dan,<br />It's sad. You are embarrassing yourself. A Healer? Are you joking? You need to seek help. I feel only your hate, and fear reeks from you. What is healing there? Nothing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-29434991065515066452010-09-10T14:45:54.620-05:002010-09-10T14:45:54.620-05:00Lacey Stinson"
That's a very hard story ...Lacey Stinson"<br /><br />That's a very hard story to hear. While I believe the laws intended to protect people who are trapped in abusive, and even life-threatening relationships are worthwhile and necessary, I also believe that filing false claims should be punish...able to an even greater extent, as in time in jail, one or two years minimum, depending on the motives for the false claims. The system doesn't always work. Judges and lawyers can have a grievance against abuse agencies and they use their power to put the victim in jail instead of the perpetrator (yes, it happens). A judge may also simply choose to believe one person's story against another, sans physical evidence that the story is true -- a situation in which the case ought to be thrown out. The accused should always be innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. False claims can be very serious. They can even put people on death row (one reason there should be NO death penalty). If the plaintiff is not able to prove that the abuse happened -- which is a possibility even if it did happen -- can it be prosecuted as a false claim?<br /><br />"One particular night in August?" That's quite specific. How could her claim stand if there is no definitive proof?<br /><br />There are so many ways the miscarriage of justice can happen. I don't think a restraining order requires proving abuse took place. It seems that a counter suit is your only recourse. To demonstrate that there is no proof of any alleged abuse, and that there was personal gain obtained from filing such an order, the combination of the two could establish it as a false claim. But what does the law say about that? Except that maybe the order should be dropped with no compensation for damages caused by the false claim? The law sucks when it's misused.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-13913973385342345412010-09-05T14:50:51.177-05:002010-09-05T14:50:51.177-05:00Please stop posting the incorrect information that...Please stop posting the incorrect information that "the law ALWAYS sides with the woman" as it is simply untrue. The law is flawed as human beings are those that make and "enforce" them... There is no justice.<br /><br />Regardless of whether a child is kept from their fit loving father or fit loving mother they are ALWAYS kept WITH AN ABUSER and those come in BOTH GENDERS.Emilia Rakhttp://www.bikinimom.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-31642609785501566382010-09-01T19:26:01.147-05:002010-09-01T19:26:01.147-05:00Kirsten Ree:
From my heart Dan; please don't ...Kirsten Ree:<br /><br />From my heart Dan; please don't give up this mission. There are thousands out there who need you. The figures are not important tho... if you can help ONE, it's worth it. Prayers for you :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-38885603383375419042010-09-01T18:15:30.821-05:002010-09-01T18:15:30.821-05:00Lynn Davis:
Sorry Dan about all this...Pray in th...Lynn Davis:<br /><br />Sorry Dan about all this...Pray in the name of Jesus seriously God answers them. But it has to be with all your heart and all your soul. He has a mission for you Dan, through your suffering you are being prepared to help others.<br />I know it so...unds cliche..But I swear it works.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-6288014861160473022010-08-29T17:59:40.600-05:002010-08-29T17:59:40.600-05:00Lori Bolton:
Your a Good Descent Loving man, Dan ...Lori Bolton:<br /><br />Your a Good Descent Loving man, Dan and you SO deserve to have your Sweet and Beautiful Hayley back in your arms :) God Bless youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-74285570196869953262010-08-29T16:42:45.769-05:002010-08-29T16:42:45.769-05:00Lori Bolton:
MANY Prayers for you and Hayley Dan....Lori Bolton:<br /><br />MANY Prayers for you and Hayley Dan. It SO breaks my heart. Oh and BTW did I tell you how beautiful I think YOUR Hayley is :) ((hugz))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-83385328644832751322010-08-28T20:41:21.263-05:002010-08-28T20:41:21.263-05:00Terri Bullard:
I am so sorry to hear this. Some w...Terri Bullard:<br /><br />I am so sorry to hear this. Some women give all of us a bad name. I offered my exs to see their sons, but they just walked away.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-80214316139500703262010-08-28T17:23:28.761-05:002010-08-28T17:23:28.761-05:00Aaron Skables:
Never go to family court. Make a s...Aaron Skables:<br /><br />Never go to family court. Make a special appearance and challenge the jurisdiction.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-53149064125675607142010-08-28T17:22:46.961-05:002010-08-28T17:22:46.961-05:00Leigh Stokes:
Yes they do listen to women in cou...Leigh Stokes:<br /><br /><br />Yes they do listen to women in court more than men and a lot of women are very convincing something needs to be done .Naomi Van Noland you need a lot of money to fight anything in court i was put on a restaining order when my ex made a fals...e statment against me and i complied with it with no admishions because i couldnt pay to fight it as well as the property setlement as well.As well as the stress of your family falling apart its something you dont want to admit or face up too sometimes people change and relationships fall apart not being nasty but it dosnt sound like its ever happend to you before naomi.People going through what Dan is going through need support and friendship not your opinion im sure Dan is dealing with it as best he can it is the worst thing that could happen to have your child taken out of your life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-2992691544978040002010-08-28T17:21:46.662-05:002010-08-28T17:21:46.662-05:00Jimmy Hall:
Sadly, courts and police almost alway...Jimmy Hall:<br /><br />Sadly, courts and police almost always side with women, no matter what the truth is.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-72030417570491196662010-08-25T16:10:59.359-05:002010-08-25T16:10:59.359-05:00Deanna Overmiller Dunlop:
And then they ignore pr...Deanna Overmiller Dunlop:<br /><br />And then they ignore proof that's right in front of them! My daughter was interviewed by the court, she told them 3 times that "Daddy tells me to hate my Mommy" and the Judge blatantly ignored it. I almost got thrown out of court for trying to get her to read what was in front of her face. Judge Moss had the typed interview in her hand and had the nerve to tell me that there was no alienation. That's the day I lost my world and any belief I had in the so called family systemAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-37180927156428062662010-08-22T17:56:59.156-05:002010-08-22T17:56:59.156-05:00Timothy Taylor:
seriously you need to get this gu...Timothy Taylor:<br /><br />seriously you need to get this guy on your side. He can help you. You need expert help, and if he cannot help you, he likely knows where you CAN turn. There is no way being homeless, or in jail is in the "best interests of the child" nor is zero contact the answser. Having said that, always keep in mind, the ex wife is your enemy in this action, and you can never trust her again.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-66110031207648151732010-08-22T14:54:56.904-05:002010-08-22T14:54:56.904-05:00Jackie Stratton: Very sorry that you are going th...Jackie Stratton: Very sorry that you are going through this. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-56051623043444565822010-08-20T19:43:13.711-05:002010-08-20T19:43:13.711-05:00Kevin Davis:
I'm sorry to hear of your troubl...Kevin Davis:<br /><br />I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. Mine have not been that bad, but I have had both my wives hit me, cut me, etc. all in an attempt to get me to lash out violently because, well, who is it that will be arrested if I succumb? I have to take punches, slaps, knifings, and threats...all because I have no choice, no way to get out, and everyone is immediately against me...simply because I have a penis! I understand SOMETHING of what you're going through, and wish you the best. This system must be changed. We need a movement for men's rights!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-90334972569768885682010-08-20T18:43:01.790-05:002010-08-20T18:43:01.790-05:00Jason Hart:
I'm sorry to hear you've been...Jason Hart:<br /><br />I'm sorry to hear you've been separated from your little girl. I have a two year-old, it would kill me. <br /><br />I have a suggestion - keep a journal especially for her, documenting your thoughts & feelings towards her, so that even if this goes on for years, in the future there will be some counterbalance to propaganda & hearsay that you "abandoned" her, or she just wasn't in your mind.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-62355612031708475422010-08-20T18:13:50.154-05:002010-08-20T18:13:50.154-05:00Laura Lee:
I'm sorry to hear about that. Divo...Laura Lee:<br /><br />I'm sorry to hear about that. Divorce is the choice of an adult. I do think your wife has the right to choose to have no further contact with you. That's her choice. However, it's a very low thing to make a false allegation to deny a father contact with her daughter. I don't know the facts of the matter. However, I would say this. When a woman acts in a manner that is extreme, out of character, and things of this nature -- look for an affair. When a spouse has an affair -- they can turn into a different person and guilt knows no bounds in projection of evil onto the innocent spouse. Hire a PI - or have someone else do it if you cannot due to the restraining order. See if there's an affair -- and if so, there's your explanation perhaps if you are innocent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-58255129029953196842010-08-20T13:57:11.932-05:002010-08-20T13:57:11.932-05:00Phil Trutherbirthertenther Wolf:
Sorry to hear yo...Phil Trutherbirthertenther Wolf:<br /><br />Sorry to hear you were subjected to the guilty before proven innocent part of family law and courts. Read up on parental alienation syndrome. You have a rocky road ahead and you have my prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4786791019478600945.post-87571398760023944612010-08-20T13:56:28.738-05:002010-08-20T13:56:28.738-05:00John Scott Ridgway:
Oh, so sorry to hear about t...John Scott Ridgway:<br /><br /> Oh, so sorry to hear about this. False allegations kind of slam you against the wall with no defense. Happened to me once, but had no consequences because the person was reporting her shrink for being from another planet, too... anyways, feel for you buddy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com